hiyia

nice to hear from you. Happy new year!
Lots of good changes in the time you've been gone, I believe (not sure when you left -- what was the last expansion you played in? Death has less sting now in EQ; you still lose exp so there's that penalty, but it's very easy to retrieve your body, and even after a week it doesn't rot, but goes to an indefinite holding pen. Gameplay in general got easier and being a paladin got funner, at least for me (nb, I was relatively high on the gear/AA scale the last year or two, which does make a difference) and they have some new ideas for character & gear development. For me there was a lot more to do than press auto-attack, but that was always true as paladin =) If I recall, you were big into the healing set up, high level pallies were valued for healing roles more than ever when I left, so that was fun.
I can only speak up until about Feb. 2006 as I retired when I got a new job, which I am loving. Law librarian now instead of lawyer, yay!
I am messing around a bit in WoW (for the second time) and I know what you mean about dying, I'm playing a pally alt and I do stupid things a lot because eh, who cares if I die? I got in my first group with her the other day and was a shockingly bad player, I would have been complaining SO much as my priest if I got a group with a pally that bad ;p But I don't really have to learn how to play at my best to solo to 22 (so far).
Take care,
Val